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Moving Guide - Tips
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Moving Guide - Moving Tips
Moving with a Family
Here are some useful moving tips to help you prepare your family for the move:
- Allow for Transition
Time: When moving your family, give them time to get used to
the idea of moving and understand what to expect
before, during and after your move. The more structure and moving tips
you can provide to them, the easier the move will be.
- Keep
a Positive Attitude: If you show them
your enthusiasm, they'll share in the excitement.
Positive attitudes are contagious!
- Prepare your
Children for the Move: Negative comments
and reactions from children are to be expected.
Anticipate their questions and concerns, and prepare
possible solutions in advance. This will help minimize
their anxiety. If you don't know the answer
to their questions, be honest with them and tell them
that you don't know. If appropriate, let them
help find the answer with you. This shows
you care about their concerns and makes them feel more important.
- Share your
Thoughts:Regardless of what your children say,
thank them for communicating their thoughts with you.
Older children may especially find it awkward to express
their vulnerabilities; therefore, it's crucial to thank them for sharing their concerns with you.
Often, just listening provides them with the
reassurance and validation they need. This leads us to another important moving tip: Keeping
the lines of communication open is critical for a smooth
transition.
- Let your Children Participate
in the Move: Children’s anxieties often stem
from the unknown. Involving them in the move
gives them a sense of control, which makes for an easier transition.
For example, children can help with the packing or with
running a garage sale.
More Moving Tips in This Section
You'll also want to check out our Packing Guide for more handy information and tips.
Recommended Books on Moving
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